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08-31-2005, 01:42 AM
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Something To Think About
Just some food for thought, I thought it was interesting...or maybe its just me.....
“If you love somebody, let them go, for it they return, they were always yours. And if they don’t, they never were.” --- This, is by far the craziest thing I’ve ever heard. If you love someone so much why would u let him or her go? To test the person? Why would u test the person you love and care about, just to see if he or she feels the same way u do? Is that justified? Shouldn’t u just know if the person loves you? I dont know, I think its a stupid quote...what do you guys think?  
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08-31-2005, 02:15 AM
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08-31-2005, 06:31 AM
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dunno why..but i kinda agree with the quote! simply becoz when u let them go..means when he/she needs to take a vital decision in life...as if not to force anything at that time...and if they acknowledge the importance of u in their lifes means they feel some passion for you and if they dont...well...too bad they arent a good friend or partner!
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08-31-2005, 08:32 AM
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i think alvin is rite raheel....letting someone go really doesnt mean that ur testing ur love...its just that sometimes in life, a time comes when u have to be parted...reason may be anything...career...fight...anything....and at that moment if u hold that person back by force or emotional torture....u may for a while win over them...but in the long run neither u nor the other would be fully satisfied....but on the other hand...if u were strong enuf to let the person make his/her decision and supported them...u may end up actually having them back...
have u seen the movie... View from the Top ???...this movie aptly outlines ur saying....a small town girl with dreams of making it to the top....finds a person whom she loves dearly but a time comes when she has to make choice between career and him...she chooses the former and he supports her....and when she has actually reached the top she realises its him who holds priority in her life and abandons her career and goes back to him!!!...so u c..the saying is sensible and has a deep meaning  yups u r rite anything can happen in the meantime but then that means the stuff between u was just attraction and in no way love!!...love really teaches u alot...and i think if u really love someone u can wait for them for the rest of ur life.....its not a movie dialogue...but i have heard that the female who lost her husband in a plane hijack never married again....she was only 25!!.... ...i wonder if u have heard about the kandahar plane hijack incidence that happend a few yrs back in india...and this couple was returning from their honeymoon!!
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#8
08-31-2005, 10:01 PM
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I can understand that there comes a time to be parted with someone, but that doesn’t apply to all people right? Isn’t it possible to be in love with someone so much that it is impossible to leave him or her? I’m sure its true…and waise bhi, even if someone was to leave his or her partner on the basis of personal issues, or work related, and the other person kept him regardless of that, I wouldn’t say it was emotional torture, I’d say it was more along the lines of obsession, or something less mild…Is it so wrong to love someone so much that you dont want them to leave your sight? lol anyway, I don’t know…as far as the quote being sensible I guess it is, I just don’t want to admit it! =) You said “I think if u really love someone u can wait for them for the rest of ur life”…true, but who would do that to themselves anyway? Why would u wait for someone all your life knowing that there’s a slight possibility that he might not come back to you? That kind of sucks…lol anyways…this makes me sad. time to go. Bye bye
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#9
09-01-2005, 01:54 PM
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agree with u fully chick...but ur contradicting ur own thots...look initially u say ur in love with some so much that u cant bear to c them leave...its near to obsession...and second u say u cannot wait for that person for the rest of ur life just becoz u have the slightest hint they might not return!!!....i wouldnt call that obsession then!!...
see its life...u never know what might happen the next moment...probably u do decide to wait for someone whole ur life...and then one day someone might come along who ll teach u how to live back...and things can become different...nothing is permanent...but if u r obsessed...i doubt things can go different...becoz as far as i feel...obsession is an imbalanced state of mind!!
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